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I migrated to Substack last month in hope of growing my audience and I was sad to do so. I like my personal site better! (And I prefer personal sites in general, for reasons you've discussed.) But I regret not being on Substack from the beginning. The reduced friction for subscribing and commenting makes a difference and I'm already getting a steadier trickle of random subscribers.

And that was a great read about writing in general! I love the idea of treating yourself like an LLM. I often think I have little to say about something until I start writing about it, and laying out my ideas makes them much better defined. That also exposes the flaws in them, which is just as valuable.

There's a Paul Graham essay on how writing is akin to thinking, and thinking without writing isn't proper thinking. I wasn't convinced when I read it but it's popped up so much in my head since then and has proven itself to be true, if not necessarily universal. (The "delayed release" aspect of some ideas is underappreciated!) https://www.paulgraham.com/writes.html

I also really love this Steven Pinker quote (via Sam Enright's latest post, an act of borrowing that proves the quote's point. https://samenright.substack.com/p/my-talk-about-ranked-choice-voting): "Write not because you think you are smarter than your audience, but because there is something you have seen that, for whatever reason, they have not yet come across, and you wish to share it with them."

I want to add that I've never regretted writing anything, while I regret not writing many things. (I may have regretted sending / publishing, but that's another story, and the writing part is always a good use of my time, even if it sometimes feels like a waste of time.)

Most of what I write is pretty frivolous compared to the intellectual Substack world. Travel, books movies. But I get so much out of it, and it makes the experiences of doing things more meaningful as I engage with them more deeply. I also frequently go back and read things I wrote, which helps jog my memory, which also makes experiences more meaningful rather than just consumption activities. The value of much of what we do in life is in the memory of it, and having a tool to improve our memories of experiences is really underrated. If I spend 2 hours watching a movie, or 10 hours reading a book, I can spare 5 to 30 minutes writing a short review. (I have the habit of doing this regularly and near immediately, but for whatever reason I don't have that habit for travel experiences, which I often write about months later. I need to fix this!)

I have over 1000 movie reviews, many of them 15+ years old, and on average I probably look at more than one a day, just because a movie will pop into my head and I'll wonder what I thought about it. I may not remember the movie at all (sometimes I'm actually surprised to discover that I actually watched a certain movie), but having a record of how I thought about it is something I cherish, and I strongly regret a multi-year gap I had where I didn't write any reviews. I often go back to my own travel posts as well. I'm embarrassed to admit how much I enjoy reading my own writing, but reading the travel posts is a pretty vivid experience, reminding me not just of what I did (which pictures can do) but about how I felt and the intellectual world I was immersing myself in.

And so, I encourage everyone to write more, even about seemingly unimportant things.

You've referred a few times to Matt Lakeman's post on writing, and this ties into that quite well. (Though I've read many posts on his blog over the years, I only read that one at some point in the past year when you referenced it, thank you for that! It's an excellent piece. https://mattlakeman.org/2020/10/06/thoughts-on-meaning-and-writing/)

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dan's pod was excellent -- still listen to past eps (nabeel, sumner, samo) and highly recommend the man's goodreads.

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